I  couldn’t find a relationship. 

I’d been in one for two and a half years before I was thirty. Ending that relationship had left me feeling hurt, but I knew it wasn’t the right relationship for me. 

I wanted to be in love and have a family. 

I realised this needed to be a serious trigger for healing. Surely everyone deserves a loving relationship to help them blossom?

If you’re not ready to look for depth and you feel scared to look within, I think the first point of call is a therapist. It’s a way to start to get comfortable with self-awareness. I tried lots of things before I really engaged with my own healing.  

I think the key is to become curious with the idea you can change something. 

Whilst you’re preparing yourself to be ready for change, try lots of things, read books, experiment with different healing models.

Heidi’s way worked for me because I came to her way of doing things when I was ready for change. 

Now my life is the way I wanted it. 

I have a partner and two lovely children. 

When I step back and look at it, I no longer see myself as a victim of life not working out. 

Whenever I feel down or sad, I remind myself I changed my life - I am in fact empowered. 

If I  hadn’t taken that decision to step into transformation, I feel certain I would still be coasting today.   I would be doing a job but not loving it.   I would not be aware of my strength and I would be stuck in ‘why me?’ thinking.